Understanding the Hidden Dynamics of Human Suffering
Three decades of clinical insight into sadomasochism, learning difficulties, and the emotional life of children.
Insights from the Books
The Published Works
Do You Read Me
Learning Difficulties, Dyslexia and the Denial of Meaning
Triumphant Victim
A Psychoanalytical Perspective on Sadomasochism and Perverse Thinking
Available worldwide through Amazon and major booksellers.
About John F. Miller
Professional Credentials
- Mr. John F. Miller M.A., Dip.Ed.Psych
- U.K.C.P. reg: 930500
- Author of "Do You Read Me?: Learning Difficulties, Dyslexia and the Denial of Meaning" and "The Triumphant Victim: A Psychoanalytical Perspective on Sadomasochism and Perverse Thinking"
Professional Biography
Psychoanalyst in private practice in Oxford for over 30 years. Post-Kleinian orientation.
Philosophical Approach
Miller's methodology is grounded in post-Kleinian psychoanalysis under Dr Donald Meltzer, focusing on projective identification, symbolic thinking, and emotional development. His work challenges conventional interpretations of victimhood, identity, and the limits of therapeutic intervention.
Central to Miller's practice is his focus on emotional growth and values, not just behavior modification. He believes that true therapeutic change occurs when patients develop deeper emotional awareness and align with their core values, rather than simply altering surface behaviors. This approach emphasizes the importance of authentic self-discovery and meaningful personal transformation.
Miller's approach emphasizes understanding underlying emotional conflicts and tensions that manifest as psychological symptoms. His clinical work draws on 30 years of experience in educational psychology and analytical therapy, with particular attention to the emotional life of children and adults.
Career Timeline
With over three decades of experience in psychoanalytic practice and academic research, Mr. Miller has established himself as a leading voice in modern psychoanalytic interpretation.
Key Concepts
- The Triumphant Victim
- A psychological configuration where suffering becomes a source of identity, moral superiority, and control. Miller identifies this pattern in individuals who unconsciously use their pain to dominate relationships and resist genuine change. The book explores how this dynamic operates not just in individuals but throughout society, creating a "culture of the victim."
- Perverse Thinking
- A mode of thought that subverts meaning and genuine emotional connection. Drawing on post-Kleinian theory, Miller examines how perverse defences against reality manifest in individuals and organisations, from the consulting room to educational systems to political discourse.
- The Denial of Meaning
- Miller's critique of how modern education treats children's learning difficulties as purely technical problems, ignoring the emotional and relational dimensions of reading and writing. He argues that dyslexia functions as a concept that allows us to avoid asking difficult questions about children's inner lives.
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